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RE: The Lion's Den - 3/8/2010 8:30:40 AM
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Miss Giggles
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I tried to comment on your fb. The swans are out (yeay) but that means the geese are coming back. Ugh
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RE: The Lion's Den - 3/8/2010 10:33:07 AM
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Seeking the advice of parents and anyone who has an opinion...LINK
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RE: The Lion's Den - 3/8/2010 10:35:08 AM
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FunBetty
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Glad to see you've got some sunshine, Lioness. I believe Spring is almost here. Yay!
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RE: The Lion's Den - 3/8/2010 11:21:53 AM
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utilityfielder
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Good morning Den. We were on the road yesterday over near Mobile. The group did a Sunday morning and evening concert and we did not get back till about 11 pm. So today I am doing laundry and cleaning the house while Pam goes back to work. This is the anniversary of my retirement and I am working more now than I did when I had my job. But I am working for the two of us now, so it is more fulfilling.
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RE: The Lion's Den - 3/8/2010 11:23:07 AM
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Oooooohhhhhh...I miss a LOT of Southernish jokes because I'm very literal.
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RE: The Lion's Den - 3/8/2010 11:39:51 AM
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quote:
ORIGINAL: Eutychus quote:
ORIGINAL: CoeurdeLeon Seeking the advice of parents and anyone who has an opinion...LINK I wish I had some wise advice. I can only offer a hug. FWIW & somewhat similar though, we didn't have any family secrets when I was growing up. I knew all the good, bad and, ugly about relatives. I think I grew up with a realistic image about life. My wife, OTOH, grew up hearing none of the dark family secrets. She and her 3 sisters thought her parents never disagreed or argued and that all her relatives were saintly. All four of their marriages went through some difficult times because they thought they'd married the wrong man since we sometimes disagreed with them. (The only thing that got us through that was the discovery that their mom & dad had their share of heated disagreements - away from the children's ears.) They also received a series of shocks to learn that some of their relatives drank heavily, ran around, gambled, etc.) I guess my point is that shielding children from the stark truth about real faults may cause them more harm in the long run than pretending those flaws don't exist. I believe this had a lot to do with why my first marriage didn't work out. I never saw my parents disagree, never saw them argue...nothing. I did see my mother nod to everything my father wanted not knowing that she would "discuss" it with him later. So when my ex and I would have problems it threw me for a loop. Granted, his cheating and abuse didn't help matters much but I believe they were all connected in some weird way. Now I have no problem arguing with someone.
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RE: The Lion's Den - 3/8/2010 12:33:21 PM
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FunBetty
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(((Pam)))) Let us know how it goes. Praying for you.
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RE: The Lion's Den - 3/8/2010 12:36:04 PM
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ORIGINAL: FunBetty (((Pam)))) Let us know how it goes. Praying for you. Also praying for you!!!!
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RE: The Lion's Den - 3/8/2010 12:42:36 PM
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Me three Pam. I was just thinking about you this morning, wondering when you would get your computer back up and going. I hope it is soon and you can stop back in the Den and let us know how you are doing. Until then you'll be in our prayers!
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RE: The Lion's Den - 3/8/2010 12:53:20 PM
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{{Pam}}
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RE: The Lion's Den - 3/8/2010 12:56:39 PM
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Miss Giggles
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{{Pam}}
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RE: The Lion's Den - 3/8/2010 1:02:53 PM
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utilityfielder
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(((Pam)))
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RE: The Lion's Den - 3/8/2010 1:21:45 PM
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{{{{Pam}}}} Praying for you!
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RE: The Lion's Den - 3/8/2010 1:32:42 PM
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CoeurdeLeon
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quote:
ORIGINAL: Eutychus quote:
ORIGINAL: CoeurdeLeon Seeking the advice of parents and anyone who has an opinion...LINK I wish I had some wise advice. I can only offer a hug. FWIW & somewhat similar though, we didn't have any family secrets when I was growing up. I knew all the good, bad and, ugly about relatives. I think I grew up with a realistic image about life. My wife, OTOH, grew up hearing none of the dark family secrets. She and her 3 sisters thought her parents never disagreed or argued and that all her relatives were saintly. All four of their marriages went through some difficult times because they thought they'd married the wrong man since we sometimes disagreed with them. (The only thing that got us through that was the discovery that their mom & dad had their share of heated disagreements - away from the children's ears.) They also received a series of shocks to learn that some of their relatives drank heavily, ran around, gambled, etc.) I guess my point is that shielding children from the stark truth about real faults may cause them more harm in the long run than pretending those flaws don't exist. Thanks, Euty. I think you're right. I know that's part of why I got so warped in the marriage. Everyone that I was around (which was only his family) acted as though he and his behavior were perfectly reasonable. I eventually came to believe that the problem had to be me since no one thought he had any problems. If that could happen to me, of course my kids are going to think they're the problem unless I tell them the truth.
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RE: The Lion's Den - 3/8/2010 1:33:43 PM
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CoeurdeLeon
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quote:
ORIGINAL: Eutychus quote:
ORIGINAL: CoeurdeLeon Seeking the advice of parents and anyone who has an opinion...LINK I wish I had some wise advice. I can only offer a hug. FWIW & somewhat similar though, we didn't have any family secrets when I was growing up. I knew all the good, bad and, ugly about relatives. I think I grew up with a realistic image about life. My wife, OTOH, grew up hearing none of the dark family secrets. She and her 3 sisters thought her parents never disagreed or argued and that all her relatives were saintly. All four of their marriages went through some difficult times because they thought they'd married the wrong man since we sometimes disagreed with them. (The only thing that got us through that was the discovery that their mom & dad had their share of heated disagreements - away from the children's ears.) They also received a series of shocks to learn that some of their relatives drank heavily, ran around, gambled, etc.) I guess my point is that shielding children from the stark truth about real faults may cause them more harm in the long run than pretending those flaws don't exist. Thanks, Euty. I think you're right. I know that's part of why I got so warped in the marriage. Everyone that I was around (which was only his family) acted as though he and his behavior were perfectly reasonable. I eventually came to believe that the problem had to be me since no one thought he had any problems. If that could happen to me, of course my kids are going to think they're the problem unless I tell them the truth.
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